(0704) After a long second sleep. Morning all … looks nondescript out there at a quick glance.

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3. The populating imperative

Just as with fiction or semi-fiction, even with autobiographical writing (just as valid), I always found that yes … there have to be structural, bridge pieces between sections but the best writing is where you get onto a roll, go off on a tare, start bringing in what the character is seeing, observing, in fine detail on this or that, not ad nauseam though.

There’s one style for men’s writing but a woman on a roll seems to notice everything around her, she describes it, sees something else and suddenly she’s off on that tare. A male reader is either used to women or is not and I’m not for just men’s writing or just women’s writing … I’m thinking that a mix of both can fill in a space more satisfyingly, providing the man (the author) can remember what the woman had been saying and includes it as dialogue … remembering her concerns genuinely, with sympathy, not ascerbically … or vice-versa in her case.

A very big ask and when it comes to writing up real life, it helps. Sadly, in budding author terms, we’re either one OR the other. Hence women’s fiction, men’s fiction. This below is a grandfather’s non-fiction at Quora (think old Reader’s Digest), is understandable to us men … and how … but is clearly not what a woman would write.

“I’m the father of two adult men (it feels weird to call them men) … my boys are 26 and 23. Both of them are single. One lives 2 blocks away from us with two roommates who are bf and gf and the other boy lives ~60 miles away.

I asked both of them when they are going to make me and my wife grandma and grandpa. The oldest says that he has tried but with working 40-60 hours a week is nice to come home, relax for a bit and then go to the gym and rock climb if he wants. He doesn’t need approval.

He also said that the few girlfriends that he has had always want to go clubbing or bar hopping every weekend and his weekends are for chilling, not getting wasted. He also lives with very few things. I looked in his fridge and it had 2 beers and a box of domino’s pizza lol. His living room has a couch, TV and recliner with an Xbox. His room has a bed, a dresser and a closet. He lives on bare minimums and thats how he likes it. He was the same way here.

My other boy (the one with two roommates) has never had a girlfriend and I asked him why and he says that the money that he makes is his. He gets to do what he wants, when he wants. One girl did ask him out and he went to dinner with her but he didn’t like her attachment to her phone. She took pictures of everything and selfies and was loud and obnoxious.

So there you are. An answer from the father of two men who are content with being alone.”

Your reaction might be “fine, that’s what they want” but I wonder if they’ve been watching the invasion of the west at all, the need for the west to procreate … from within the west. Ceuta. Southampton. Do you see any chance of planned procreation within a culturally Christian frame these days?

If the woman/girl is just into partying and travel, having a partner not just there to service her, provide for her dreams but actually in a symbiotic union, then where does that end up after the first fire has dropped into day-to-day, with all the 2026 stresses? Does it not end up in the divirce court with odds like that of the Clancy jury, taking the man to the cleaners? What man is not wary of that in 2026?

And that comes back to Yuri Bez’s Ghost quote (up at UHC-HQ now) about how the fabians have destroyed society … the nuts and bolts of it … together with rabid feminazism from the same source. Plus Amelia’s post weeks back on inversion.

And men? Slaves of porn … again, who owns the porn empires? Same lot as the paedo networks.

I ask how, given more passive men just wanting peace and quiet and the porn idealism of too many of them, versus the mindset of any potential partner … well, I used the word symbiotic above, meaning two different species … may as well be today. Julia and I at Orphans try to keep a give and take male-female working relationship going … hopefully there are plenty of other working partnerships like that.

The female has the choice of a world of betas on not much dosh versus the alpha high flyer, cheating left, right and centre. And what of the female? At best, a fanatical globetrotter … two of my exes, right now, are off on trips every couple of months … she leads, strides ahead (dodged a bullet?) … he dutifully follows, plus a third is also now in Italy, with grown children in tow. The modern woman never settles for peace and quiet … the man eventually craves it.

Compare that to the most hugely overpopulating demographics invading us, with the women abused and themselves just as rabid … is that a better model?

Seems to me the west has slipped into a highly destructive end-zone, where women have become female men. As for men? I covered that above with the alphas and betas … also don’t forget us sigmas. I’m not a true sigma coz I love the gals I connect with, and my mates are important too.

Oh and one other thing from the male point of view … Sophie Cunningham had no partner till recently, meaning she put it about whenever the need grabbed … now she has a black man … I BS you not.

So much for staying European sourced (North America and the Antipodes being ethnically from there). Sydney Sweeney dresses and cavorts like a tart. How useful would either of those be as a partner, as a companion? Ego plus.

Good westerners … we are in trouble.

2. DAD at 1491