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Unfortunate male traits, especially today
You Tube is flooded with this sort of thing, not all from Pearl or JedBila:
The key takeaway from her was how calmly, seriously and genuinely she looked into the camera, condescendingly urging men who did not want her: “Have you incels ever truly looked inside of yourselves, at why you’re doing this? Have you ever thought that the problem might actually be you?!
Voice then cracks. The saddest part, to me, is how she ever got to be like this. I don’t mean standard characteristics such as men basically don’t care, women are always right, even when wrong … these things transcend eras … I mean that she was equipped with almost no people skills due to upbringing and education, also the hypergamy and fickleness, always looking for a better deal, complete godlessness.
At this point, I stopped and thought that YT is flooded with these, made by women, with the old MGTOW vlogs as well. I was thinking … whatever happened to all the older YTs such as Kezia Noble advising men (simps mainly) how to attract a woman … there was a flood of videos by women advising men. Much harder finding these today … and I did try, because I wanted this post to be the other side … things wrong with men.
I searched and found a few and here, in no particular order, were many of the faults of modern men:
- Lacks ambition, purpose, vision, a project
- Irresponsible
- Vain
- Needing constant validation
- Manipulative and controlling
- Lacks empathy
- Stingy with money
- Lacks a sense of humour which is not cruel or sardonic
- Lacks masculinity … overly feminine, in touch with feelings
- Lacks confidence
- Can’t admit he’s wrong
- Loses temper, goes mental quickly, even violent
- Only wants N1 with a female … these days maybe not even a female
- Fishes for compliments (validation)
- Not in shape, physically
- Unhygienic, untrimmed etc.
- Mansplains, manspreads
- More susceptible to illness
- Uses corny chat-up lines, rather than truly conversing out of interest
- Lacks moral compass, fibre, consistency, lacks any godliness
It went on, the list and the immediate thought was that many of those were women’s faults too … some were definitely men’s though.
Next thought was that both the women’s vlogs slamming women and those slamming men were contrary to my personal agenda in the matter … which is trying to do what I can to bring western men and women together again in sanctified marriage, in order to get to work on each other and procreate.
Therefore, these sorts of lists, vlogs, podcasts, posts, are hardly helpful. To my mind, my agenda is a very tall order in 2025. But we press on.